A Bold Headed Barrier

Ladies, if you are in a relationship, you know that there are times you will just be frustrated with your partner.

It's normal, part of life, and honestly pretty much inevitable.

And those moments your first reaction is to take it out on them. Criticize them, correct them, chastise them. It's human instinct.

But I just recently is that when you have a frustration you need to take it to God.

Taking your frustrations out on your partner will only lead to death and destruction in your relationship.

God put barriers in your life, and sometimes uses your partner or other loved ones around you to block you from a door that will only lead to destruction.

When God uses them to stop you from making a big mistake, and they stand blocking your path, usually it means God put them there.

Yes, I know you get frustrated believe me I do too. But God just showed me that when you are frustrated you need to bring it to him. Cast all of your anxieties on him because he cares for you.

You can learn to give your anxieties and frustrations to God, it is amazing what he will show you.

This time, God saved me from bringing death and destruction into my relationship.

So the next time you're frustrated with your partner, take a moment to wonder if God is using them to keep you from destruction on the other side of the door.

To close it, and continue to heal and destroy whatever is on the other side of the door that can destroy you.

Trust and pray until it's time for both you and your partner to walk through the door together.

Then you can walk into life, love, laughter, and live truly well with your partner. You have a choice, you can either bring life or death to your relationship.

Someone God brings you to the secret place of hiding. Wait, seek, wait, trust. God will open the door in his due time, and when the time comes, it's going to bring a beautiful life.

So the next time your partner feels feels like a barrier to the door you want to walk through, let God use them to lead you to safety.

God created men with an instinct, a beautiful, godly instinct to lead you as their wife. allow them to do what God created them to do, trust them, follow them, pursue them.

God will use them to lead you to life.

Reflections from Jeremiah 36.